Hugs.
I have come to a few conclusions. One, I think I am depressed. I noticed that I have not been online hardly at all anymore. When I think of getting online, I think of job searches, which makes me think of where I work and how disappointing it is. sigh
Second, when I started this job I was my usual friendly self, chatty, happy etc. I believe because I was new I made an extra effort to return friendly gestures. ie hugs. I am not much of a hugger. No, nope... can't say that when I show up at work and you see me walk in the door and you approach me for a hug does not make me cringe and turn the other way. I am just not that way. Especially when it is not like a super special exception, like seeing someone you have not seen in atleast 10+ years. Not someone I just saw less than 13 hours ago. In an enviroment I hate to be. Seriously though, not much of a hugger.
Second, when I started this job I was my usual friendly self, chatty, happy etc. I believe because I was new I made an extra effort to return friendly gestures. ie hugs. I am not much of a hugger. No, nope... can't say that when I show up at work and you see me walk in the door and you approach me for a hug does not make me cringe and turn the other way. I am just not that way. Especially when it is not like a super special exception, like seeing someone you have not seen in atleast 10+ years. Not someone I just saw less than 13 hours ago. In an enviroment I hate to be. Seriously though, not much of a hugger.
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TheJoeD on
Hugs are terrible. It's especially bad when you have one of those awkward moments where you're both uncomfortable hugging eachother but someone makes the approach.
Hugs not Drugs? I'll take the drugs thank you very much.
Fleur on
I don't like to be touched, so hugs are weird. Hugs seem so sedimental, so a 'friendly' hug just doesn't exist. If I hug someone I like 'em.
TheJoeD on
Imagine living in one of those countries where guys have to kiss other guys on each cheek? 
natanism on
I used to be a non-hugger, nowadays I have became a wicked hugger. I hug all my friends. Pretty much all of my friends hug eachother. I remember the first time down here when someone hugged me I was all like "Eeeewww, get off me...why are you touching me" throughout the entire embrace. Ick!
bkro9 on
Lol Cavutto. I hate hugging friends, it seems awkward. But with a sig other, I LOVE hugs. Can't get enough. When my husband and I first met he made some joke that I wasn't a hugger or something. Boy is he kicking himself now.
